Call for Volunteers S.T.E.P. Hunger Walk Event Steps Toward Eliminating Poverty Short-term committee work for an all ages event Sunday, May 21, at Mary Queen of Heaven What is S.T.E.P.? S.T.E.P., unlike other walks, includes opportunities for prayer, education, advocacy and cultural awareness. Prayer: We will open our hearts to Christ who will guide us in our efforts to assist those in need. The Walk: Our walk is symbolic of walking with our brothers and sisters who walk for miles everyday to survive. Education: We will learn about global, national and local poverty issues. Advocacy: Advocacy involves working for justice. We will learn how we (children to adults) can become proactive in battling poverty and related issues. This will enable each one of us to realize that Christ's compassion is active, not passive. Cultural awareness: Through music, food, art, videos and displays, we will learn about cultures living in poverty and promote awareness that we are created in "oneness" and in Christ. This event is a joint effort of MQH, IC and Visitation parishes. Mary Queen is this year's sponsor. If you would like to volunteer please call John Menarek at 834- 4075/email jmenarek@sbcglobal.net. Parish News Help the Homeless at PADS Need help any of the following Sundays: April 9, April 23, May 28 6:00 a.m. to 7:30 a.m. (that's right, a.m.) Even if you can only make it one time, your help is appreciated. Two different locations: Elmhurst Presbyterian, and Salvation Army-Oak Brook, near Summit and Butterfield Call Debbie at 941-7224 and she can give you more information. You will meet at least 1 or 2 people from Mary Queen when you work at either site. The work is mainly cleaning up after breakfast and putting away the bedding. Religious Education News You a Catechist? Why Not? This is the perfect time to start thinking if you are being called as a catechist in our Religious Education Program next school year. Each year we lose a few catechists due to moves, jobs, or maybe moving on to another ministry in the parish. I'm sure this year will be no exception. Our sessions currently meet on Wednesdays, 3:15 to 4:30 p.m. for Pre-school through Grade 4, 5:15 to 6:30 p.m. for Pre-School to Grade 8 and 7:15 to 8:30 p.m. for Grades 5 through 8. So if you like the little ones or maybe the junior high is where your interests lie, please call for more information. Your children deserve the very best....You! Lenten Project We are collecting items for Easter baskets, which will be donated to Marillac House on Chicago's West Side. Each Wednesday during Lent, there will be a "Basket" in the hall of the school for donations of candy, small stuffed animals, grass, or other items appropriate for a child's Easter basket. Please be generous. Mark Your Calendars: Wednesday, March 29 - NO CLASS - Spring Break Wednesday, April 5 - Class Resumes Saturday, April 8 - First Communion Retreat 9-11 a.m., Social Hall If you have questions or need more information, please call Mary Ann Woods at the REO, 832-8962. Christian Education Commission Christian Worship Commission Prayer Requests To pray for our sick is an important privilege of our parish family. We hope that you will pray for these persons every day, alone or as a family. Pam Bondfide Heather Brennan Kathleen Bryers Doresa Brugler Pat Caffarelli Rose Caffarelli Kathy Calzante Dennis Ciancio Family of Cynthia Catalano Cosmore Ciancio Paul Cirone Rhonda Colletti Margaret Conroy Trudi Dolato Baby Samantha Dobrowolski Dino Fuggitti Modesta Goggins Mary Hagerty Anna Heffel Jen Huwalt Tom Huwalt Pat Holmes Michelle Humann Maureen James Tom Janicke Richard Johnson Irene Kmieciak Bernadette Kohn Tim Kowalski Baby Emma Lynde Robert Manion Raymond Mitchell Bobbi Nannini Phyllis O'Donnell Geri Pstrzoch Baby Faith Reid Jess Smith Karen Sutkus Cathy Ward If you or a family member would like to be included in our prayers, please call the rectory at 279-5700. Also, please let us know when a name should be removed. Lenten Food Collection Our St. Vincent dePaul food collection will be held the weekend of April 8 and 9. The food will be distributed to needy families in our community for Easter. We are collecting non-perishable items of canned vegetables, fruit, soup, pastas, rice, spaghetti sauce, prepared foods, coffee, tea, juice, boxed cake mixes, peanut butter, jelly, paper products (Kleenex, toilet paper, paper towels), hand soap, and laundry detergent. Boxes will be available in the church vestibule to accept your donations. If you have an hour or two to spare, we could use your help sorting the food for the Easter Baskets on Sunday evening, April 9, at 7:00 p.m. in the church. Please call Sheila Reiter at 833- 6657 to offer your help. Christian Service Commission Easter Egg Hop-N-Grab Saturday, April 15 The annual Parish Easter Egg Hop-N-Grab will be held at 11:30 a.m. after the Blessing of the Baskets. Children ages 1-10 with a parent or guardian are invited to join the event. There will be treats, prizes, music & face painting; plus popcorn & cotton candy for sale. We are looking for volunteers ages 11 and up. This is a great way to help out and have some fun; 8th graders can earn service hours also. We would like prize donations for this event. These can be candy, small items to fit into eggs or larger ones for prizes such as jump ropes, sidewalk chalk, coloring books etc. If you would like to volunteer or donate items, please call Genet Pinkerton at 834-6521. There will be donations boxes at school. Enrich your Lenten Journey Sign up for Eucharistic Adoration for Monday, April 3, 2006 from 9:00 a.m. to 7:00 PM We are also in need of people who can make a regular commitment to a time slot. If you are interested or have any questions please call Kay Diggins at 630-530-7124 or Renee Bladek at 630-832-1812. CCW MEETING The monthly CCW Board Meeting will be held on Tuesday, March 28th at :30 p.m. at the home of Diane Gornick, 284 Geneva Avenue. All women of the parish are invited to attend. For more information or if you have any questions call Mary Connelly at 782-7626. CCW "Woman of the Year" Congratulations to Mary Nanak who was chosen "Woman of the Year" last Sunday. Mary will attend the 28th Annual Woman of the Year Mass and luncheon on Saturday, April 29, at the Cathedral of St. Raymond. She will also be honored at our "Ladies Night Out" dinner in June. DISCERNMENT PROCESS FOR NEW PARISH PASTORAL COUNCIL MEMBERS NOMINATIONS ACCEPTED APRIL 8-9 AND APRIL 15-16 Last year, our parish moved to a model of discernment, rather than election, for Parish Pastoral Council members. This model has advantages over elections because the focus is not on choosing who is the most popularly known of the candidates. Instead, an independent facilitator leads a prayerful process which helps all who are involved discern who has the gifts most needed for the Council at a particular time in the life of a parish. This year's process will begin during the weekend of April 8-9, when representatives of the PPC will speak at weekend Masses and nominations will be accepted for new members. Nominations will also be accepted the weekend of April 15-16. All nominees who would like to participate in the discernment process will be required to attend an Orientation to the PPC on Monday, April 24, at 7 p.m. The next step for nominees continuing in the process will be required attendance at Discernment Day, to be held on Saturday, June 17 from 9 a.m. to noon. During Discernment Day, those present will prayerfully discern our new PPC members. Some of the nominees may discover that they are better suited to another particular ministry or to service on one of the PPC Commissions. Those who are discerned as new PPC members will attend their first PPC meeting on June 26 at 7 p.m. Please keep these dates in mind if you are nominated because attendance is required at these events. The PPC is a visioning and planning body. Members of the PPC should not be the "do-ers" of the parish who are already leading ministries and activities but they should be persons whose primary commitment is to their service on the PPC. This year, we are looking for two new adult members and two youth representatives. PPC members should be: * Individuals who are fully dedicated to the whole parish's well-being and not to a specific ministry or area of church life * Persons of compassion, care, and integrity, who possess good "people skills" * People who are open to the Holy Spirit and who are able to make decisions by the consensus method, rather than by majority rule * People who model tolerance, as Jesus did * People who are bridge-builders and who have a sense of humor All registered parishioners, adults and teenagers, are invited to nominate a candidate. A nomination must include the name of the one being nominated and the reason why he or she is being recommended for the PPC. Those eligible for the PPC must be Roman Catholics who are in good standing with the Church, who have already received the Sacrament of Confirmation. No staff member other than the Pastoral Life Coordinator serves on the Council and no immediate family members may serve at the same time. MILT HONEL I view the process which was implemented in 2005 involving prayer, discernment, orientation, and selection a decided improvement over the popular election format. The Discernment Process adopted by our parish last year results in better prepared parishioners being added to the Parish Pastoral Council. Parishioners who are nominated and go through the Discernment Process but decide, for whatever reason, not to join the PPC will result in parishioners having a better understanding of the operation of the PPC in our parish. MARY ANN REED Having been "elected to" parish councils in the past at other parishes, I was excited about the opportunity to participate in a discernment process last spring when considering membership on the MQH Parish Pastoral Council. The process, conducted on a Saturday afternoon, was almost like a "mini" retreat for me. I was invited to spend some time looking inward and really considering those personal qualities that might either be an asset or a challenge to me as a member of the parish pastoral council. I was given the chance to share my awareness with others and to be affirmed in my self- assessment. I also had the pleasure of getting to know some other people a bit more intimately and to support and affirm them. All of the sharing was done in a truly caring manner, and I feel I learned something about myself as well as about others. It was useful to me to have the time-the peace and quiet-to consider what service on the PPC would mean in terms of commitment and to make a realistic appraisal of my willingness and ability to give the job what it requires. I think the discernment process is invaluable, even if the individual "discerns" that they are not called to serve in this way. Anyone who is "looking for their niche" in parish ministry will have much to gain from going through this process. The Holy Spirit is full of surprises! BRENDA SCANLON I am a longtime parishioner and have been a member of Mary Queen of Heaven Parish Pastoral Council for the past year. When I was asked to consider being a PPC member, I thought that this might be a possibility. I was fortunate to have the Discernment Process help me in making the decision to be a PPC member. The Orientation Session gave me the opportunity to learn what the PPC is all about and what is expected of its members. The Day of Discernment allowed for prayerful thought and discussion before making this commitment to the parish. As a member of the Mary Queen of Heaven PPC, I am able to give back some of what has been given to me. I am able to be of service to Mary Queen of Heaven Parish and its parishioners. What a blessing for me! I encourage anyone who wishes to serve on the Parish Pastoral Council to take advantage of this time of discernment. It is well worth the time spent. HEATHER STYKA I agree with the listed qualities for PPC members. Most of all (speaking from experience!) I would emphasize that members should be able to attend meetings. They must be able to commit themselves. Sometimes this means that we must seek individuals who may not have large roles in other areas of the parish. Since our parish uses discernment rather than elections, I think we will be able to look past the familiar faces and rather look for people who will be able to respond to the call of leadership. LYNN SUWANSKI Discernment has been an integral part of my faith life since the birth of my Small Faith Community 12 years ago. Each year we evaluate what is important to our group and to each of us as individuals, concluding, hopefully, with a commitment to remain with the group for another year. Through this experience, I see the value in the process of discernment for the formation and growth of the Parish Pastoral Council. Potential members work through the process to realize whether or not the Spirit is calling them to the Parish Pastoral Council. Last year, the first year we did this in our church, was a faith-filled day with some surprises. It was definitely worth the time and prayer it took to recognize the people who discerned a call to join the PPC. MORE REFLECTIONS FROM CURRENT PPC MEMBERS: SOME REFLECTIONS FROM CURRENT PPC MEMBERS: Mary Queen of Heaven Church A welcoming Catholic community that is rich in history and open to the future, knowing that the Spirit of God is truly guiding us. You are invited to join us for our 50th Anniversary Mass Sunday, April 2, 2006 10:30 a.m. Bishop Joseph Imesch, presiding 426 N. West Avenue Elmhurst, Illinois (630) 279-5700 Following Mass all are invited to a reception in Barrett Hall and to visit the school building which will contain memorabilia (the past and present). Mary M. Foley, Pastoral Life Coordinator JOE GORYL Discernment is a very important part of my spiritual life at Mary Queen of Heaven Church. Through discernment, I call on the Holy Spirit to give me direction on some of the choices I make on behalf of the parish. I consider discernment a Gift from God not just a process. Sometimes it is difficult to follow the direction of the Holy Spirit, trying to block out outside influences. However, part of discernment is making those distinctions and then being at peace with the decisions I have made. Before my involvement on the Parish Pastoral Council (PPC) I would use discernment on a personal level in my everyday life, asking the Holy Spirit to help me make the correct decisions. Since I have become a member of the PPC, I have discovered a whole new level of discernment. I have learned that the Spirit also acts within the gathered believers of the parish community. Discernment is how the Spirit shows us what God wants us do and be. Through this upcoming discernment process, we will all need to ask the Holy Spirit to guide us to make decisions that we will find peace in. KATHLEEN GUSLOFF According to the New American Bible: Discern means to help us understand between two or more things. I believe this process enables those nominated to better understand the role of the PPC and level of commitment needed to serve. This method gives nominees time, through prayerful discernment, a chance to look at how they might feel called to contribute to our church. Nominees will have the opportunity to learn about the council and each other in an effort to choose who they believe will best serve our parish community. I pray that this model of discernment will benefit our parish family and all those participating find it to be a positive and rewarding experience.