Mary's Corner

Mary Queen of Heaven Catholic Church
426 N. West Avenue
Elmhurst, Illinois 60126-2171
Parish Office: 630/279-5700
Fax: 630/279-4667

"I have something to give
but I don't know what it is...
and I don't know who to give it to..."

Dear Friends,

The words above belong to Dorothy Day in the movie Entertaining Angels: The Dorothy Day Story. It is a movie I highly recommend. I used it for a class I taught in the diocesan New Wine program in January. I chose it because within this one movie, you really get to see what it means when we say that we are called by virtue of our baptism to evangelize - to preach the good news of Jesus Christ, to "bear much fruit" (in the words of today's Gospel) as disciples of our Lord.

In this movie, you meet Dorothy Day as a young adult, before she was ever baptized. Her words above come at the very beginning of the movie. At that time, she is not religious at all; in fact, religion doesn't seem to have a place in the life of anyone around her. Yet, she already recognizes a deep desire within herself, something she cannot identify, and she wants to search for its meaning. She reminds me of many people today, who go out in search of all things "spiritual," trying to find deeper meaning in their lives.

Dorothy finally discovers the call of God (all of the sacraments we celebrate in life come from the heart of God, who always invites us into deeper relationship) by paying attention to things around her. Already moved by social injustices in the world, Dorothy finally meets a woman - almost crashes into her on a bicycle ride, in fact (God sometimes has surprising ways of bringing us into each other's lives) - who begins to make connections for her. Dorothy watches the simple way this woman shares her life with the poor. Dorothy sees not only poor people being fed but a community that is formed out of people loving one another. The woman invites Dorothy to "come to church."

It was really that simple. That invitation paved the way for the rest of Dorothy's life. Slowly, she begins to change and she finally realizes that her deepest desire is for the One who has been calling her to a life of love. She is baptized into the Catholic Church and she eventually becomes the founder of Catholic Worker Houses which spread throughout the country. People today are campaigning for her canonization as a saint of our church.

One of the reasons why I like the movie Entertaining Angels so much is that in it, we have the story of a saint being made. The whole first part of the movie helps us to enter into Dorothy's life and we see how real she is. We watch her march in the streets for women's rights in the early part of the 20th century; we see how she tried to make her way as a female newspaper reporter. We are with her and her friends - multiple times - in the bar where they liked to hang out and drink. We see how she ends up with someone who takes advantage of her and pushes her to have an abortion when she becomes pregnant out of wedlock. We watch how this experience devastates her and yet she makes mistakes again. She gets pregnant again as a single woman, though this time she keeps her child, who is eventually baptized together with her.

There is nothing fairy tale about Dorothy Day. She lived at a different time in history but she was an ordinary woman of her time. Ordinary people today live with all sorts of contemporary problems. They do not always make good decisions in their lives; they fall into sin. In Dorothy's time, young people went in all sorts of directions trying to find meaning for their lives. The same thing still happens today. It was a simple invitation to church that got Dorothy on the right path. It was that simple invitation to church that changed the world for people whose lives would become affected by the great Dorothy Day.

How many Dorothys do we come in contact with? How many people are there - maybe strangers we pass on the street, maybe people we know at places of work or play, maybe even people in our own families - who are lost, who have not yet come to know God? Even in her younger years, Dorothy did good works and she was sensitive to the needs of others. But she never really understood the meaning or purpose of life.

People have to be open to conversion; no one can force it upon them. But we are all called to be missionaries - to be evangelizers. We don't have to go to a foreign country. We don't have to preach on street corners. People can come to know Christ by watching the way we live our lives. And we can invite them to church. They may not accept the invitation the first time we invite them. Perhaps they will never accept it. But who knows? The person we invite may someday become the next Dorothy Day.

On the website for Catholic Worker, there is another quote from Dorothy Day that appears at the top of the page.

"The greatest challenge of the day is: how to bring about a revolution of the heart, a revolution that has to start with each one of us?"

Why not start by inviting someone to church?

Mary M. Foley, Pastoral Life Coordinator






M.O.M.S
(Moms Offering Moms Support)


	Elmhurst Catholic M.O.M.S. is a social and spiritual 
organization that provides an opportunity for mothers of young 
children from Elmhurst Catholic parishes to meet other mothers.  
Bi-monthly meetings include a mother/child activity or a guest 
speaker with babysitting provided.  There are no membership fees 
and everyone is welcome.  

	The year would not be complete without our annual picnic as 
a close out!  On Thursday, May 18, plan to enjoy lunch and 
activities with our kids at a local fun destination.  For more 
information and location please contact Jean at 832-0575.  


Lighter Fare for Summer Wear
"Introduction to the Bible"

	Have you ever wondered how the books of the Bible were 
chosen?  Do you know the difference between the many versions and 
translations available today?  These and many other questions 
will be covered in the next Bible Study offering, Introduction to 
the Bible.

	This program is geared to help newcomers become comfortable 
with studying the Bible while offering the experienced new 
insights.  Introduction to the Bible is a weekly video 
presentation with small group discussion, a prayer service, and 
minimal personal preparation.

	Sign-up will be this weekend, May 13/14.  Participant books 
will be on sale for $5 this weekend.  (Please see Mary Foley if 
you are in need of a "scholarship")  

	We now have 4 groups; our first meeting will be on Tuesday, 
May 23 with one AM and one PM group.  A third group will meet on 
Friday mornings starting May 26, and the Destiny teen group led 
by Kathleen and Tom Gusloff, which meets on alternate Sunday 
mornings, will also be participating.  We will meet each week 
through July 18, with a break for July 4.

	For more information, please contact Lynn Suwanski (630-
530-2523) or Alex and Marie Grozik (630-530-0503).


Marriage Ministry

Celebrating Fifty (or more) Years of Marriage

	Mary Queen Marriage Ministry is planning an anniversary 
Mass and celebration for all couples married 50 or more years in 
2006.  Our celebration will be on Saturday, June 24, after the 
5:00 p.m. Mass.  We will be serving cake, coffee and champagne.  

	If you will be married 50 or more years, please come with 
your family and join us.  Contact one of the Marriage Ministry 
Facilitators so we can include you in our celebration (Don or 
Ellen Walker 279-4021 and Alex or Marie Grozik 530-0503).  
           
AND . . . 
Coming in September, 2006...

Ten Great Dates!
More Information to follow!


Parish News


Wings to Heaven

	Our next wings meeting will be Wed, May 24, from 6 to 8 
p.m.  All youth going into 5th grade and anyone up to 8th grade 
are invited.  This is a great way to find out what WINGS TO 
HEAVEN is all about!  Come and find out from other members why 
they love coming.  Please note as of now, this is our only May 
meeting due to Mothers Day and Memorial Day. 

Watch the bulletin for our summer meeting times!

Destiny

	Destiny will also be doing the bible study.  It will take 
place during our regularly scheduled meeting times on Sunday 
mornings..  

	Youth Leadership Conference (YLC) : sign up now to join us 
July 21-23 for a weekend of fun and worship.  Total cost is $175 
per student.  Application deadline is June 1st with a $100 
deposit.  All high school students are invited to join us.  
Please call Mrs. Gusloff if you are interested or have any 
questions. 832-4348.


Prayer  Requests
To pray for our sick is an important privilege of our 
parish family.  We hope that you will pray for these 
persons every day..

	Pam Bondfide	Heather Brennan
	Kathleen Bryers	Doresa Brugler
	Pat Caffarelli	Rose Caffarelli
	Kathy Calzante	Dennis Ciancio
	Cynthia Catalano Family 	Cosmore Ciancio
	Paul Cirone	Rhonda Colletti
	Margaret Conroy	Ida Corriedo
	Trudi Dolato	Baby Dobrowolski
	Virginia Feret	Modesta Goggins
	Mary Hagerty	Anna Heffel
	Jen Huwalt	Tom Huwalt
	Pat Holmes	Michelle Humann
	Maureen James	Tom Janicke
	Richard Johnson	Kathy Johnston
	Irene Kmieciak	Bernadette Kohn
	Tim Kowalski	Baby Emma Lynde
	Robert Manion	Raymond Mitchell
	Bobbi Nannini	Phyllis O'Donnell
	Geri Pstrzoch	Baby Faith Reid
	Joaquina Scroppo	Jess Smith	
	Karen Sutkus	Ted Vecchio
	                          Cathy Ward

	If you or a family member would like to be included in our 
prayers, please call the rectory at 279-5700.  Also, please let 
us know when a name should be removed.


Christian Worship Commission


American Cancer Society's Relay for Life
Friday, June 16 - Saturday, June 17

The glories of the Relay are not in the past,
but in the possibilities it has for the future....

It's about being a community that takes up the fight.

	The Relay is an overnight family event where everyone can 
help our communities contribute in the fight against cancer.  Our 
Relay for Life of Elmhurst and Villa Park is a community-
sponsored event designated to honor loved ones who lost their 
battle, celebrate cancer survivors and raise money to support our 
survivors and future research.  It offers everyone a fun 
opportunity to help with the fight for a cure.  While the Relay 
is in progress, team members stroll around the track at York HS 
enjoying entertainment, live bands, food, games and camaraderie 
while honoring cancer survivors.  It's unforgettable!

	The teams are set as the event gets closer.  There are many 
behind-the-scene helpers needed to coordinate such an event.  
Whether you are an individual or part of a organization who can 
spare some time, or a leader of youth groups looking for service 
hours, have we got jobs for you.  No matter what age, there is a 
job for everyone. Please consider volunteering for this inspiring 
event - you will be glad you did!

	Please contact Cindy Tenuata at 268-0819 or email 
CTENUTA@emhc.org. subject-Relay.  



Cenacle Retreat House, Warrenville

Fr. Benet Fonck, OFM, 
will present a day of prayer on 
Thursday, May 18, from 9:00 a.m. until 4:00 p.m.

"To Cling With All Her Heart to Him - 
The Spirituality of St. Clare of Assisi"

	Based on his book of the same name, Fr. Fonck will lead 
participants to take a look into Clare's intimacy with Christ.  
He will examine the seemingly poetic words of Clare to St. Agnes 
of Prague, words that convey the real-life experience of St. 
Clare.  The offering is $50 and includes lunch.  

Also at Cenacle Retreat House
For Persons with Physical Disabilities
May 26-28

	Peg Bowman, MA, MPS, will present our annual retreat for 
persons with physical disabilities, "Inside Out-Upside Down: The 
Parables of Our Lives."  Peg will invite attendees to join with 
others who seek to find meaning in the everyday mystery of 
ordinary life.  

	The retreat will include inspiring presentations by Peg, 
time for personal prayer and reflection, prayer services, 
sacrament of Reconciliation and celebration of the Eucharist.  
The cost is $100 for a single room and $90 for a double.

	For more information or to register for either of the above 
programs, please call 630-393-1231.


Diocese of Joliet
Job Description

Title 	Housekeeper/Custodian
Agency	St Charles Borromeo Pastoral Center
Supervisor	Maintenance Supervisor

Job Summary
	Clean assigned areas, guest rooms and monitor the security 
of the building on weekends.

Qualifications
	High school education. Ability to lift sixty (60) pounds. 
Valid drivers' license. Ability to work independently, 
unsupervised. Good communications and people skills.

Working conditions
	This is an N-2 position.  Full-time with benefits 1:30 p.m. 
to 10 p.m. Thursday to Monday. Some over-time work as necessary.

If Interested Contact Michael A. Svach, 
Director of Diocesan Personnel at: 815-834-4077 
or E-Mail: msvach@dioceseofjoliet.org


Spring Planting Time!

Calling all Garden Club Members and parishioners!

	We will plant flowers around the rectory, south side of 
Church, in front of school and in the planter in front of Mary's 
Gathering Space on Saturday, May 27, at 9:30 a.m.  If you can 
spare an hour or two, bring your gloves and digger and we will be 
delighted to assign you a job.  

	If you can help or have any questions, please call Rose 
Wilkes (833-7238) or Sheila Reiter (833-6657).


Catholic Charities Emergency Service

	Every year in December, the DuPage County Catholic 
Charities office receives donations from the DuPage parishes to 
purchase food certificates and gift certificates from the local 
grocery stores.  These certificates are given to needy families 
who come to our office for assistance and to supplement the food 
they receive from local food pantries and walk-in ministries.  
Each month our Emergency Services group receives hundreds of 
requests for varying assistance.  Our supply of food gift 
certificates is now running lower than it has in previous years.

	If you are able to help our Catholic Charities Emergency 
Services group with a cash donation or grocery gift certificate, 
we thank you profusely. Please make any checks payable to 
Catholic Charities and in the memo section of your check please 
write "Lombard Office food/gift certificate purchase".  The 
address is below.   If you have any questions, please contact 
Annie Laven at (630) 495-8008.  Thank you very much.

Catholic Charities, c/o Annie Laven 
26 W. St. Charles Road
Lombard, IL  60148


Religious Education 

	A special thank you to all who made our First Communion 
celebrations so wonderful this past weekend. Thanks to our Grade 
2 catechists, our music ministers, liturgy planners, parents, and 
most especially, our children. We are all very proud of you and 
hope to see you often at the Lord's table.

RE Registrations
	June 1 will be here in a few weeks. If you want to register 
at the discounted fee, get those forms into the office today. FYI 
- if you have a preschool or kindergarten child you would like to 
see in the program next fall, get your registration in today. 
Those classes fill up quickly and enrollment is limited at those 
grade levels. 

Catechists Needed
	We have had some folks respond to our request for help and 
we thank you. However, we are still in need of catechists at 
various grade levels at various session times. If you are a 
loving, welcoming, accepting, forgiving person, you have the most 
important qualifications for being a catechist. You don't have to 
be a theologian, just someone who can help our children 
understand how the Gospel can be applied to their lives. Come 
share your faith with the young people of Mary, Queen. of Heaven.

If you have any questions or need more information, please call 
Mary Ann Woods at the REO, 832-8962.


Joliet Diocese Catholic
Charismatic Healing Mass

Friday, May 19, Mass at 7:30 p.m.

Sacrament of Reconciliation - 6:30 p.m.
Doors open at 6:00 p.m.

St. Joseph Catholic Church
4801 Main Street, Downers Grove
Father David Lawrence, Presiding
Deacon Jose Lopez, Assisting

For information, please call 630-964-0216
Next Healing Mass will be June 16, 2006.


	On the cover photo are Mary Foley, Mary Nanak, Bishop 
Imesch, Sheila Reiter (CCW board member), and Mary Connelly 
(Parish CCW President)

	Pictured here are Mary Nanak (CCW Woman of the Year) 
and Bishop Joseph Imesch.


L.O.S.S.
(Loving Outreach to Survivors of Suicide)

	Support groups meet from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. on:
June 06 - Catholic Charities, Kankakee
June 21 - St. Paul the Apostle Activity Center, Joliet
June 27 - St. Daniel the Prophet's Parish Center, Wheaton

	For further information, please call the L.O.S.S. Program 
Center at 312-655-7283.


Free Ministry 
to Traveling Catholics

For nationwide Mass times and locations, 

phone 1 800-Mass Times
(1-800-627-7846)

Or Internet www.Masstimes.org


A Memorial Day Mass
 will be celebrated on 
Monday, May 29, at 9:00 a.m. 
in the Assumption Cemetery Chapel Mausoleum 
located at 1S520 Winfield Road in Wheaton.


From Education for Justice (www.educationforjustice.org)
Questions of Faith
	In what concrete ways do you find yourself in solidarity 
with people in other parts of the world?  In what concrete ways 
do you find yourself separate or alienated from people in other 
parts of the world?

Actions - Links
	In light of today's theme of solidarity, we might reflect 
on an issue like immigration policies and laws which is presently 
being discussed widely in the United States.  See the resources 
below for some help with your reflection.

The Catholic Campaign for Immigration Reform's web site can be 
found at http://www.justiceforimmigrants.org/

Strangers No Longer: Together on the Journey of Hope, a Pastoral 
Letter Concerning Migration from the Catholic Bishops of Mexico 
and the United States, can be found at 
http://www.usccb.org/mrs/stranger.shtml


Market Day

	Orders for May are due Monday, May 15, at noon.  Turn in 
your order form in the box at the back of church or at the 
rectory.  Pickup on Saturday, May 20, from 9:30 - 10:30 a.m. in 
the Social Hall.  If you have questions or would like to place an 
order, please call Maria at 279-2238 or Karen at 279-4108.

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