It is good to be home! After my son's wedding, I took a few extra days to get some more writing done on my doctoral thesis. I stayed up at Mundelein Seminary at the retreat house and finished almost another complete chapter. There is hope that I may finish by December, after all!
It was very secluded at Mundelein, helpful for needed quiet but also somewhat isolating from the events of the world. Still, when I would go out to the car, I would listen to public radio and try to catch up on world news. This was still very different than regular daily life, when I can access news anytime through the internet at my fingertips.
This morning, I signed on to my computer and the first headline I saw read, "War hits home for U.S. Senator." The story was about the death of a Marine in Iraq who was the nephew of a senator from Montana. The headline made the suggestion that when people we know are involved in war or tragedy, these kinds of things have more meaning for us because they become more personal.
While I was away from home, most of the bits and pieces I heard about the news had to do with the Middle East, especially the attack on Lebanon by Israel, intended to target militant Hezbollah. With this fighting, there has been devastation of Lebanese infrastructure and loss of civilian life. Like the senator referred to in today's headline, this news of the continued suffering of the Lebanese people "hit home" for me because of our friends from Our Lady of Lebanon. As you know, our parish provided a home to this Lebanese Maronite Rite parish of Eastern Rite Catholics for two years while their own new church building was being constructed.
While I was away, I left a telephone message for my friend, Father Alfred, the pastor of Our Lady of Lebanon. On my first day back in the office, I had a conversation with him. He said that he is having a letter sent to me about what is happening in Lebanon so that I can share this with you. I will do this when it arrives. In the meantime, I also learned that Fr. Alfred has been having some health problems, especially with some chest pain. He is going to be undergoing some tests in the next week and I would ask you to please keep him in your prayers. I know that these days have been stressful for him and his people.
While my access to news was somewhat limited in the last couple of weeks, most of what I heard had to do with Israeli and U.S. insistence that there could not be a cease-fire until other conditions were met. This never made any sense to me. The United Nations Secretary General has issued an appeal for an immediate cease-fire to allow desperately needed humanitarian aid to reach victims. While that is happening, said the Secretary General, work can continue on developing the framework needed for a lasting ceasefire and a sustainable solution to the conflicts. He begged people to put aside their differences so that this might happen.
Please pray that there will be a cease-fire. Whatever political candidates one may support, our Catholic faith cannot be subordinated to political allegiance. On the contrary, it is the teaching of the Catholic Church that we should be responsible citizens, actively seeking to pursue greater justice and peace. As our U.S. Bishops say in their document "Faithful Citizenship:" Politics cannot be merely about ideological conflict, the search for partisan advantage, or political contributions. It should be about fundamental moral choices. How do we protect human life and dignity? How do we fairly share the blessings and burdens of the challenges we face? What kind of nation do we want to be? What kind of world do we want to shape?
This week, our Pope has also issued an appeal for an immediate cease-fire in the Middle East. There have been more than 500 deaths in Lebanon in the last two weeks. In the air raid on city of Qana alone, there were 60 civilian deaths, including 37 children. The situation is becoming more serious day-by-day and hatred and vengeance are growing. The Pope says: These facts clearly demonstrate that you cannot reestablish justice, create a new order and build an authentic peace by turning to the instrument of violence.
The Pope has called upon leaders of governments around the world to do everything possible to achieve a cease-fire and "begin building, through dialogue, a lasting and stable coexistence among all the people of the Middle East." Most of all, says the Pope, there is the need for prayer. As Catholics of the United States, we should urge our own government leaders to support an immediate cease-fire, even as we work together with others to ensure lasting peace.
And we should be active in our own prayer lives, too. The destruction taking place in Lebanon should have a human face for us. The innocent people of Lebanon are our brothers and sisters. We have prayed with them in this church, we have eaten with them here in Barrett Hall. In our time of sharing our parish home, we learned to get past the initial pettiness of who did or didn't clean the microwave to really trying to live together in love and peace. We accomplished this successfully by respecting our varied religious and cultural customs, accommodating the need of each other to express these with integrity, and together growing in understanding through the process. I know that my life is richer from the friendships that were formed and still remain. May all of us learn to be better peacemakers and may we work and pray for peace in our world.
Mary M. Foley, Pastoral Life Coordinator
July Celebrations We welcome into the Mary Queen of Heaven Parish Family the following who were baptized in July: Christian Cesare Favia Nicola Ruggieri, Jr. Christina Eboh Tresslar A Vocation View To taste and see the goodness of the Lord means to be drawn closer to God. "Try, then, to imitate God as children of His that He loves, and follow Christ by loving as He loved you." Be a presence of god's love in the world today. Do what you can to bring to life God's love. L.O.S.S. Support Group (Loving Outreach to Survivors of Suicide) Through the collaboration of Catholic Charities (the Archdiocese of Chicago and the Diocese of Joliet), support groups are in place for anyone who has lost a relative or friend to suicide. A trained facilitator and a mental health professional assist these groups. The groups meet from 7:00 to 9:00 P.M. on either the first Tuesday of the month, the third Wednesday or the fourth Tuesday of the month. The next meeting dates are as follows: Aug. 16 - St. Paul the Apostle Activity Center 130 Woodlawn in Joliet Aug. 22 - St. Daniel the Prophet Parish Center 101 West Loop Drive in Wheaton Ministry of Prayer and Praise In this week's bulletin, you will find a copy of our 2nd Ministry of Prayer and Praise newsletter. People who are commissioned to this ministry will receive a monthly newsletter, along with a prayerbook, rosary, and certificate of commissioning. People who serve in this ministry make a commitment to pray daily for our parish and its special intentions. This ministry provides a special opportunity for homebound people to participate in the life of the parish, but the ministry is open to anyone who wants to make the commitment. If you would like to become part of this ministry, please call the parish office at 279-5700. MQH Parish Feast Day The feast day of Mary Queen of Heaven will be celebrated on Sunday, August 20, with an outdoor Mass at 10:30 a.m. This year being the 50th anniversary of our parish, the outdoor mass is especially significant. We hope you and your family will join other parishioners in celebrating 50 years of faith in our parish. Our Mass will be held between the church and school building, directly behind Barrett Hall. Should the weather be inclement, Mass will be held in the Church. Following Mass there will be fellowship. This is a great opportunity for our parish families to meet and become better acquainted with each other, while enjoying conversation and refreshments (coffee, tea, juice and sweets). We look forward to seeing you and your family on this special occasion. Religious Education There are just 5 weeks left until the opening of the MQHRE 06/07 year. We cannot do it without you. Please note the positions that still need to be filled. Are you called to be a catechist?? Are you aware that at your Baptism, all Christians are commissioned to do the work of Jesus? Did you know that all Catholics are called to further the teaching mission of Jesus? Have you heard that by sharing your faith with children, you deepen your own faith in the process? Do you know that without our volunteer catechists, we do not have a Religious Education Program? Please consider joining our team of dedicated men and women just like yourself who weekly share their Faith with the young people of the parish. We still have openings that must be filled. Help our children to get to know our God. All sessions meet on Wednesdays. Please bear in mind because of the size of our program we have almost 70 catechist and aide positions to fill. We need only nine more. We are blessed. If you can help, please call the REO today. Classes begin in just a few weeks. Have you registered yet? Registrations are still being taken in the REO for the coming year. Our opening event is September 13th. It will be here before we know it. If you have not registered, please do so ASAP. Pass the word to your friends and neighbors. Classes are filling up. For more info on any of the above, please call Mary Ann Woods at the REO, 832-8962. Following are those grade levels where you are needed: Session 1 - 3:15 Grade Two - 3 openings Grade Three - 1 opening Session 2 - 5:15 Grade One - 1 Grade Three - 1 Grade 5 - 1 Grade Seven - 2 Session 3 - 7:15 Grade Six - 1 Prayer Requests To pray for our sick is an important privilege of our parish family. We hope that you will pray for these persons every day, alone or as a family. Natalie Baker Pam Bondfide Heather Brennan Kathleen Bryers Doresa Brugler Pat Caffarelli Rose Caffarelli KathyCalzante Cosmore Ciancio Dennis Ciancio Paul Cirone Margaret Conroy Cynthia Catalano Family Ida Corriedo Trudi Dolato Baby Dobrowolski Virginia Feret Modesta Goggins Mary Hagerty Anna Heffel Jen Huwalt Tom Huwalt Pat Holmes Michelle Humann Maureen James Kathy Johnston Irene Kmieciak Bernadette Kohn Tim Kowalski Baby Emma Lynde Rovert Manion Raymond Mitchell Bobbi Nannini Geri Pstrzoch Baby Faith Reid Rob Restivo Joaquina Scroppo Jess Smith Rachael Thompson Ted Vecchio Cathy Ward Rest in Peace Fr. Michael Ginter Phyllis O'Donnell If you or a family member would like to be included in our prayers, please call the rectory at 279-5700. Also, please let us know when a name should be removed. Building Effective Relationships With our Teens For parents of children ages 13-19 Tuesday, August 8, 7-9 p.m. This two-hour workshop teaches participants practical, usable skills and insights on how to parent effectively during the challenging teen years. Building Effective Relationships With our School Aged Children For parents of children ages 5-12 Tuesday, August 15, 7-9 p.m. This two-hour workshop helps parents build on their existing strengths in order to win greater cooperation with their elementary aged children. In addition, it assists them in providing their children with the tools they need to survive and thrive in today's society. All workshops held at Catholic Charities, in Lombard. $20 per person; $25 per couple. Pre-registration required. Instructor: James Gilligan, MSW, LSW For more information, please call-630-710-8226 or e-mail effectiveparenting@sbcglobal.net "Out of Poverty" Program Catholic Charities plans to hold an "Out of Poverty" program in September in an effort to prevent homelessness and improve people's lives. There are no explicit criteria for attendance other than individuals who find themselves in need of assistance in moving out of poverty. The program helps the participants to take control of their goals, time, and money for a prosperous and self-sufficient future. The program is for 10 weeks, once a week, and is free. The classes will be held in our office at 26 W. St. Charles Road, Lombard, on Mondays from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. and will start on Monday, September 18. Please call Dennis Haffron at 630-495-8008, ext. 45 with any questions and to be included on a list for the next class. Diocesan Wedding Anniversary Mass Registration Form Celebrate the Anniversaries of Marriage at the Cathedral of St. Raymond, Joliet Sunday, August 20, 2006, at 3:00 p.m. The 28th Annual Diocesan Wedding Anniversary Mass will be celebrated on Sunday, August 20, 2006 at 3:00 p.m. at the Cathedral of St. Raymond in Joliet. All couples and their families, no matter how many years married, are invited to attend the event (maximum of four guests per couple, please). During the liturgy, our new bishop of Joliet, J. Peter Sartain, will lead the couples in a renewal of their marriage vows. Couples celebrating 25, 50, and more than 50 years of marriage will receive a special certificate. Please pre-register by completing and returning the form by August 11, 2006. For more information, please call 815-838-5334. Enrich your Relationship with Our Lord Sign up for Eucharistic Adoration for Monday, August 7 9:00 a.m.-7:00 p.m. We would like to have more permanent Adorers. If you are interested or have any questions please call Kay Diggins at 630- 530-7124 or Renee Bladek at 630-832-1812. Lands of the Bible Synopsis Week One In our first week of studying the Lands of the Bible we will survey the places of the Bible as pilgrims through the ages have experienced them. Connections will be made between the journeys of our biblical ancestors and our own experiences as a pilgrim people today. Wings to Heaven Hot dog and game night All 5th-8th graders Wednesday, Aug. 16th, 6 - 8 p.m. Social Hall/school building r.s.v.p. Kathleen Gusloff 832-4348 or email The5ofgus@aol.com Come and find out what Wings to Heaven Youth GroupIs all about... fun.. food, games & JESUS!!! Dinner & Dialogue With the Wheaton Franciscans This session on Franciscan Spirituality will be presented on Monday, August 14, 2006 from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., at Our Lady of the Angels Convent, 26 W. 171 Roosevelt Road, Wheaton. The "Dinner..." will begin with a simple meal, followed by a prayer, engaging presentations, and then a table discussion. This session, The Prophet lives a life of nonviolence by becoming instruments of peace. Cost $15 for this session or $20 for the two remaining sessions. To register, please call the Justice, Peace and Integrity of Creation Office at 630-784-2555, or email us at justicepeace@wheatonfranciscan.org Sign-up for Bible Study Lands of the Bible It is still not too late to sign up for our next Bible Study, Lands of the Bible. We will meet for 8 weeks from August 8 to the week of September 25. Please join us to learn about the Holy Lands where Jesus once walked. For more information on sighing up, please call Lynn Suwanski at -630-530-2523. 2nd Resurrection Parish Reunion Sunday, September 17th, Drury Lane Oakbrook The event is a gathering of parishioners and alumni from Resurrection Church and School, formerly located at 5082 West Jackson Blvd. in Chicago. For reservation forms or additional information, write to Kay Cahill, P.O.Box 72016, Roselle, IL 60172, or call 630-894- 5964. E-mail, KayCahill78@aol.com Volunteer Tutors Needed The Sisters of St. Joseph of La Grange Park are in need of volunteers for its adult literacy program, School on Wheels. Tutors are needed to teach one hour per week from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. or 3 p.m. to 8 p.m. in Cicero, Hodgkins, Lombard, Summit, Westmont, and Woodridge. Two-day training will be provided from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. on August 28th and 29th and August 30th and 31st. Volunteers must attend one two-day training session. No prior second language skills are needed. For more information, call 78-354-9200 Ext. 5060, 5085, or 5037. The Diocese of Joliet Celebrates The 19th Annual Bishop's Mass With Persons With Special Needs Sunday, October 15, 2006 12:00 noon Cathedral of St. Raymond 604 N. Raynor Ave., Joliet Please join us to celebrate Liturgy with Bishop J. Peter Sartain Luncheon immediately following in the Joyce Center (Gym) Please call Jen at (815) 727-6411 for luncheon reservations. Interpreter for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing will be provided. 2006 Joliet Diocese Catholic Charismatic Healing Mass Father Paul Hottinger, Presider St Joseph Catholic Church 4801 Main Street, Downers Grove Friday, August 18 7:30 p.m. Mass Doors open at 6:30 p.m. Sacrament of Reconciliation-6:30 p.m. For information please call 630-954-0216 (Sponsoring Prayer group: Aylesford, Darien)